{"id":475,"date":"2023-06-22T15:42:46","date_gmt":"2023-06-22T15:42:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/blog\/resources-for-teaching-girls-about-their-changing-bodies\/"},"modified":"2024-01-08T03:33:36","modified_gmt":"2024-01-08T03:33:36","slug":"resources-for-teaching-girls-about-their-changing-bodies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/blog\/resources-for-teaching-girls-about-their-changing-bodies\/","title":{"rendered":"Resources for Teaching Girls About Their Changing Bodies"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Quite often, I\u2019ll get a question like this: \u201cHey Sarah, do you have any resources\/books for teaching girls about their changing bodies? Menstruation, deodorant, bras &#8211; all the things! Thanks!!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I figured instead of trying to answer each person individually, it would be good to finally get a blog post up with all the resources in once place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I grew up in an age, as I\u2019m sure many of you did, where sexuality was very hush hush. We don\u2019t talk about it. And while, I don\u2019t like the idea of chatting about sexuality freely to anyone and everyone, I feel very strongly that it should be an open conversation between parent and child. Sexuality and all that goes along with it, especially in the confines of marriage, is a BEAUTIFUL gift from God, and as parents, we have the responsibility of giving our children a healthy view of their bodies as well as an understanding of the beauty of their femininity and masculinity. Be the safe place for ALL of your children\u2019s uncomfortable questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In our world today, it does seem that conversation around sexuality happens earlier and earlier. I shudder at the information some very young children know. Let kids be kids! We are forcing them into an adult world that honestly limits the carefree years of childhood. However, knowing the trends of our culture, knowing that homosexuality, trans genderism, feminism and other unbiblical sexual agendas are going to be put in front of their faces no matter how much we try to protect them, it is important to start the conversation early and continue that conversation throughout all their years in our homes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:auto 40%\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p>Having said that, here are a few resources for moms who have girls who are facing adolescence and the whirlwind of emotions and changes in their bodies. (I\u2019d like to continue this conversation and include several other resources that have been helpful for us, but this one is just for girls entering puberty. If you want more resources on this topic in general, see my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/shop\/littlebitoflovely\/list\/W9DX1IUN0SPW?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsflittlebitoflovely_9E1X5XKY9N06FX9GCG18\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Girls Only<\/a> page in my Amazon Storefront.)<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=1024%2C684&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-537 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=1024%2C684&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=1536%2C1026&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=1320%2C881&amp;ssl=1 1320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?resize=600%2C401&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:57px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Books<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>Talking to Our Daughters:<\/em><\/strong> One book I\u2019d highly recommend is <em>Talking to Our Daughters: a mother\u2019s guide for talking with her daughter about adolescence and womanhood<\/em> by Jane Grafton. We are just getting into this stage, so I\u2019m going through this book by myself right now and picking out what she\u2019s ready for. This will be a resource we\u2019ll be going through slowly for the next several years. I have a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/stories\/highlights\/17857932629275274\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">highlight saved on my Instagram page that gives you a good look at the inside<\/a>. Sometimes this book is available used on <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/439I1eh\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon<\/a> or Thriftbooks, otherwise you can find it new at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.purityplan.org\/resources.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Purity Plan Ministries.<\/a> (Scroll down the page to find it.)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Beautiful Girlhood:<\/em><\/strong> Another I\u2019d recommend is <em>Beautiful Girlhood: a timeless guide for Christian Adolescence<\/em> by Mabel Hale revised by Karen Andreola. You can sometimes find this used on <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3paedQN\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon<\/a>, but also check Thriftbooks. The original (unrevised) by Mabel Hale can also be found on <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3NmrsFR\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon<\/a>, but I\u2019m not sure how it differs from Karen Andreola\u2019s revised version. It sure looks like a beautiful book though!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Instagram Pages<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/birds-bees.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong><em>The Birds and the Bees Company:<\/em><\/strong><\/a> We are huge fans of talking about the birds and the bees in age appropriate ways in everyday conversations starting out when they are very young\u2026especially when they ask questions. DON\u2019T FLIP OUT when they ask you something uncomfortable. And DON\u2019T AVOID CONVERSATION OR PUSH THEM AWAY EITHER! Answer your child\u2019s questions as best as possible giving them age appropriate information. But DO TALK about it. Our world is so sexualized, and your kids WILL see and hear things you\u2019d rather protect them from. So YOU tell them FIRST while you can screen the input and give them a healthy beautiful view of womanhood and sex. I love <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/birds__bees\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">@birds__bees<\/a> for ideas about answering kids questions in age appropriate ways. They also have a podcast, but don\u2019t have new episodes too often. Their most popular resource they have available for purchase is a online course you can take about this topic. I have not taken it myself, but I have friends who rave about it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Podcast Episodes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Each of these podcast episodes on this topic have given me a lot of food for thought, and while not just for girls, I thought they would fit well here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fi\/podcast\/giving-your-kids-a-biblical-view-of-sex\/id1547126864?i=1000607683205\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong><em>Giving Your Kids a Biblical View of Sex<\/em><\/strong><\/a> by Brettnay at No Higher Calling<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nowthatwereafamily.com\/podcasts\/now-that-we-re-a-family-10\/episodes\/2147892461\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong><em>What Our Parents Taught us About Sex and What We\u2019re Teaching our Kids<\/em><\/strong><\/a> by Elisha and Katie at Now That We\u2019re a Family<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of the links here are Amazon affiliate links. If used to make a purchase, I will receive a small commission from Amazon at no extra cost to you! So THANK YOU!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Quite often, I\u2019ll get a question like this: \u201cHey Sarah, do you have any resources\/books for teaching girls about their changing bodies? Menstruations, deodorant, bras &#8211; all the things! Thanks!!\u201d <\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I figured instead of trying to answer each person individually, it would be good to finally get a blog post up with all the resources in once place. <\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I grew up in an age, as I\u2019m sure many of you did, where sexuality was very hush hush. We don\u2019t talk about it. And while, I don\u2019t like the idea of chatting about sexuality freely to anyone and everyone, I feel very strongly that it should be an open conversation between parent and child. Sexuality and all that goes along with it, especially in the confines of marriage, is a BEAUTIFUL gift from God, and as parents, we have the responsibility of giving our children a healthy view of their bodies as well as an understanding of the beauty of their femininity and masculinity. Be the safe place for ALL of your children\u2019s uncomfortable questions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":537,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"nf_dc_page":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[67,65,69,66,68],"tags":[57,63,12,62,59,58,64,14,50,56,8,60,61,55],"class_list":["post-475","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-adolescence","category-family","category-girls-only","category-home","category-puberty","tag-adolescence","tag-beautiful-girlhood","tag-books","tag-books-for-girls","tag-family","tag-girlhood","tag-girls-only","tag-home","tag-motherhood","tag-puberty","tag-resources","tag-teen-girls","tag-teens","tag-womanhood"],"acf":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/image-asset-9.jpeg?fit=1920%2C1282&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/475","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=475"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/475\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":539,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/475\/revisions\/539"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=475"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=475"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithfulandflourishing.org\/staging\/9315\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=475"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}